Empowerment – A Story of Challenge

Hello there! I've got another point of view on empowerment for you to dig into! If you’re in a situation where someone is empowering you to do something, a relationship is automatically created.  They are transferring decision-making and ownership to you and you are receiving it. Sometimes that goes well, and sometimes it doesn’t - … Continue reading Empowerment – A Story of Challenge

Feeling Empowered

Do you know what it's like to feel truly empowered?  Can you recognize when it's the real deal, and when it's an empty promise?  You might need to answer these questions frequently as you get further down your path of understanding what it is to be empowered.  Vestalia's very own Jeff Wynn took some time … Continue reading Feeling Empowered

Crafting Invitations to Gain Commitment

Welcome back to another peek into the wide world of conversation!  Recently we've examined dialogues and feedback, today we're checking out invitations. You're in conversations involving invitations all of the time.  Knowing how to craft a great one is a fantastic skill to have and can have a huge impact on how your invitation is … Continue reading Crafting Invitations to Gain Commitment

Setting the Stage for Sharing Feedback That Feels Hard To Give

It's still March, and we're still exploring different types of conversations that pop up a lot in our day-to-day at Vestalia (and, let's face it, in all parts of our lives).  Turning the spotlight on feedback this week. Initiating conversations where you need to share feedback with a person to get them back on track … Continue reading Setting the Stage for Sharing Feedback That Feels Hard To Give

How Dialogues Get Us To Where We Need to Go, Together

When talking with others, we naturally engage in many different kinds of conversations.  The tactics, tones, and non-verbals we employ in a debate where we're trying to persuade others will be very different than how we'd go about delivering an info share to others.  Discerning which type is the most effective for what you're trying … Continue reading How Dialogues Get Us To Where We Need to Go, Together

Little Shifts that Lead to Choices

Change is about opportunity, possibility, creativity, growth, and making a difference. Unless it's not. Sometimes change, and its opposite stagnation, makes us feel trapped or stuck. There are many factors that go into this emotional responses, the following is a musing on one: how to find choices and regain a sense of agency in our … Continue reading Little Shifts that Lead to Choices